Parade Your Power

Pussy Power Won Me a Trip to Jamaica /  by alyssa aparicio

I WON a whole retreat to JAMAICA last weekend 🤯.

And when I say it’s cuz of Pussy Power I’m telling the whole truth. Here’s how it went down:

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1.SURRENDER:

If y’all been following me on IG or email recently, I’ve been sharing about how these last weeks, I’ve been deeply anchoring into SURRENDER. Actively cleansing scarcity from my body, mind, and spirit while conjuring abundance on a cellular level. All while guiding the members in my membership on a journey of a month of Surrendering to Being.

As a tool, surrender has been extremely important to me on this journey of leveling the fuck up and riding the rollercoaster of emotions that accompany confronting shadows while making BOSS moves and investing in myself and trusting like crazy. Whew! So I’ve been diving into rituals on rituals on rituals and they’ve been deep since my birthday last week. I’ve been devoted to pampering myself next level to support myself through the process and anchor into my power.

Here are some of the rituals I’ve been using to anchor:

Sex Magic

Consulting with my Highest Sensual Self

Embodiment

Womb Meditation


2. Intuition:

So from the moment I saw the flyer for a women in cannabis event called Down the Rabbit Hole, where our resident Pussy Empowered DJ, Moonflower was gonna be spinning, my intuition was fully drawn to go even though my logical mind was low key in scarcity and resisting getting a ticket. I let myself work through the feeling of scarcity by proactively taking time to surrender and listen from that place of connection including on the day of….

3. Sex Magic:

I woke up and chose to start the day in abundance with a breast massage that turned into an embodiment practice that turned into a deeeep sex magic ritual using my pleasure treasure wand, and I was literally moaning the word “Caribbean” at one point. No lie.

4. Living Rapturously:

After the ritual anchoring into abundance, I was like - ummmm, of course I wanna spend the evening at a pool party being blessed by DJ Moonflower and the badass women in the realm of cannabis. That became very obviously the thread of abundance to follow.

I blasted Milkshake and No Doubt and flirted with a couple guys I’m auditioning on text and danced around and got dressed up pinup style cuz I saw there was a contest and I thought -that sounds fun, why not me? I asked my bestie which outfit he liked better and then chose the other one cuz my Pussy and ass was showing more and that is my forever mood.

5. Parade Your Power:

The event was like a DREAM. It felt like a living Barbie dream house with flowers everywhere, neon and pink. All the women were INCREDIBLE-fun, sassy, BOSSES. I was in heaven hanging with everyone, dancing and eating tacos, having deep conversations, and laughing our asses off.

When the contest came around, I was like OMG I'm too high for this and I’m not in performance mode. I just wanna be myself so I just relaxed and did my best to stay fully present and out of my head.

I was asked my inspo behind the outfit during the contest, and upon reflecting on my day leading up to the moment and week before, I said PUSSY POWER of course and flashed my leopard print thong and shook my ass and had so much fun being myself, living in the moment. I got so much love and applause and laughter from all these glowing women. I was like holy shit this is my life rn?! All these dope women showing me love for me being exactly who I am?! Flaunting my sexuality, celebrating my body, living my truth!

When I won by crowd cheers, my brain fell out of my head 🤯. This wasn’t the wink I was asking for, it was a full on orgasm delivered by the universe letting me know I am on my path and in alignment. I was calling in surrender? Well guess what, the universe delivered to me even more surrender to match the vibe I’ve been cultivating within- a whole retreat vacation to the CARIBBEAN like the word spoke out loud during my sex magic practice.

Damn. Pussy Power for the WIN.

Thank you Coral Cove Wellness Resort for this incredible gift! I cannot WAIT!


PS. All the tools I mentioned above, I also share and teach all the time! If you want a taster, consider purchasing my Pussy Empowered Ritual Bundle. If you’re ready to dive in, join us in Pussy Empowered: The Movement Membership Program where dive in with weekly virtual gatherings and there’s a membership site FULL of rituals and tools like my Sex Magic for Abundance Masterclass.


Here I am celebrating after my big win:

Parade Your Power /  by alyssa aparicio

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Parade Your Power

Move through the world anchored into your embodied, authentic power while taking up space unapologetically

The Problem

  • Shrinking Ourselves: Many of us receive messages and conditioning that it is not safe to move through the world as a woman from a very young age. Thus we make ourselves small so as not to draw attention to ourselves and not stir the water

  • Empowerment is not a Theory: Many modalities that teach empowerment are mostly theoretical or compartmentalized. When it comes to implementing this in real time, it can be very hard to put into practical use

  • Lack of Safe Space: It is not often that we are in containers where we feel safe to experiment with what feels powerful in our bodies vs what feels performative or inauthentic

The Pussy Empowered Solution

  • Parade: Power is a practice. You will have opportunities to practice express yourself in the presence of community, where you will learn how to stay present, aware, and enjoying your body even with eyes on you

  • Posture: You will learn how to carry yourself so that you feel grounded into your strength and power from deep within, while commanding attention and earning respect with the language of your body

  • Boundaries: You will learn to set boundaries and speak your truth by grounding into the wisdom of your body

Ready to Parade Your Power?

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Strip Down, Rise Up : From the Perspective of a Stripper on Set /  by alyssa aparicio

Today marks the release of Strip Down, Rise Up, the Netflix Documentary about the empowering impacts of pole dance. I participated in the filming as part of a class in a modality called S Factor. Upon watching the trailer when it was released a few weeks back, unresolved thoughts and feelings about my experience during filming rose to the surface once again.

On of my main points of discomfort is in the fact that the trailer entirely omitted stripping from an implied complete conversation on those who interact with the pole.

This was a reflection of the experience I had while working as a professional stripper at the time of filming. I felt deeply unseen and out of alignment in a classroom where the context of history, race, class was never addressed in regards to pole. Nor was education or advocacy on this topic ever on the table.

I am currently in the process of digesting and sharing about this experience. Hear my thoughts below: